The Mulitple Realizability of Self Loathing.

I always wondered if my own dissatisfaction with my singing voice was at all any reflection or manifestation of a dissatisfaction with my Self? Perhaps only in fully accepting your person hood do your own perceptions of Self equalize and eventually grow to a pure acceptance of Self. In other words, the closer you are to being able to idealize your self in a 'healthy' way, the easier it becomes to develop an acceptance to a certain aspect of yourself like vocal expression. Similarly, it's like being dissatisfied with one's own grammatical style. These are just different ways of looking into a mirror.